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sOuLmatEs…LimitiNg mytH oR is it fatE?!…

the idea oF a sOuLmate haS bOth conscious and unconscious eLements. Even iF we dOnt inteLectuaLy beLiv iN sOuLmateS, wE aRe stiL affected. many pipoL openLy aNd consciousLy yeaRn fOr a sOuLmate. tHey may even beLiv oNe peRson iS out tHere fOr them, tHat ‘ryt’ person. but even tHose whO dont beLiv in sOuLmateS consciously are just as affected by a similaRidea that operates uNconsciousLy- and mOre poweRfuLy.

wE oL hoLd somE unconscious liSt of notionS descRibing an ‘ideaL’ reLatiOnship paRtner. Often we recite paRt oF tHis List aS wHat we waNt in a paRtner. but reaLity inevitabLy faiLs to matcH ouR ideaLs. aNd wE judge aNd react to reaL pipoL according tO ouR ideaLs. aS a resuLt, maNy reLatiOnshipS tHat have potentiaL aRe bLocked, iF nOt Lost. aNd dissatiSfactiOn, unhappineSs aNd upsets aRe unconsciousLy geneRated. iS tHe veRy nOtion of ‘ sOuLmate juSt a seLf-LimitiNg fantasy- aN ideaLization wHich oNLy keepS uS from eveR feeLing truLy satiSfied witH a reaL humaN Life paRtner… oR r wE nOt seeing a pOsitive pOtentiaL here?!….

jUst fReNs! … tHat pHrasE aLmOst seemS redundaNt iN sOme paRticuLar caSe Lyk aS to twO pipoL oveR the yeaRs havE buiLt upOn tHe true, reaL natuRe betweeN eacH otHer. tHey havE a bOnd, a cOnnectiOn tHat bOth tHeir cHaracters R yet tO have estabLisHed witH any otHer cHaracter.

fOr aN instance…’SEBASTIAN’ may have faLLen fOr otHer guRLs, but hiS heart wOnt fOrget ‘FAITH’ AnD wHiLe tHis gaL may beLiv sOme otHer guy iS tHe gReat Love oF heR Lyf, stiL sHe beLivS tHat ‘SEBASTIAN’ iS heR sOuLmate. maybE nOt exactLy heR sexuaL rOmantic sOuLmate, but hE haS aN insight oN heR tHat nO otHEr haS been abLe tO achieve. yes, a guy may havE Loved heR in a gReat many LyftimEs aNd peRhapS fOr a gReat many mOre, but ‘SEBASTIAN’ has undeRstood heR aNd reaminEd LoyaL to heR iN tHis one. hE is heR true bLue fRiend aNd wOuLd dO anythiNg tO ensuRe heR happiness. it iS hiS Luv fOr heR tHat truLy makeS him human aNd itS heR obLiviousness tO hiS emOtion That makeS heR cLueless tO wHat hiS heaRt haS beeN abLe to teL heR. ( *remembeR cHris raMsey aNd eve LambeRt of pORt cHarLes)

wHat tHey dO have iS sumtHing beautifuL, speciaL iN itS own Light, aNd if eveR tHere waS sumtHing REAL, it waS nOne otHeR tHan ….THEM!*;-)

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