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sOuLmatEs…LimitiNg mytH oR is it fatE?!…

the idea oF a sOuLmate haS bOth conscious and unconscious eLements. Even iF we dOnt inteLectuaLy beLiv iN sOuLmateS, wE aRe stiL affected. many pipoL openLy aNd consciousLy yeaRn fOr a sOuLmate. tHey may even beLiv oNe peRson iS out tHere fOr them, tHat ‘ryt’ person. but even tHose whO dont beLiv in sOuLmateS consciously are just as affected by a similaRidea that operates uNconsciousLy- and mOre poweRfuLy.

wE oL hoLd somE unconscious liSt of notionS descRibing an ‘ideaL’ reLatiOnship paRtner. Often we recite paRt oF tHis List aS wHat we waNt in a paRtner. but reaLity inevitabLy faiLs to matcH ouR ideaLs. aNd wE judge aNd react to reaL pipoL according tO ouR ideaLs. aS a resuLt, maNy reLatiOnshipS tHat have potentiaL aRe bLocked, iF nOt Lost. aNd dissatiSfactiOn, unhappineSs aNd upsets aRe unconsciousLy geneRated. iS tHe veRy nOtion of ‘ sOuLmate juSt a seLf-LimitiNg fantasy- aN ideaLization wHich oNLy keepS uS from eveR feeLing truLy satiSfied witH a reaL humaN Life paRtner… oR r wE nOt seeing a pOsitive pOtentiaL here?!….

jUst fReNs! … tHat pHrasE aLmOst seemS redundaNt iN sOme paRticuLar caSe Lyk aS to twO pipoL oveR the yeaRs havE buiLt upOn tHe true, reaL natuRe betweeN eacH otHer. tHey havE a bOnd, a cOnnectiOn tHat bOth tHeir cHaracters R yet tO have estabLisHed witH any otHer cHaracter.

fOr aN instance…’SEBASTIAN’ may have faLLen fOr otHer guRLs, but hiS heart wOnt fOrget ‘FAITH’ AnD wHiLe tHis gaL may beLiv sOme otHer guy iS tHe gReat Love oF heR Lyf, stiL sHe beLivS tHat ‘SEBASTIAN’ iS heR sOuLmate. maybE nOt exactLy heR sexuaL rOmantic sOuLmate, but hE haS aN insight oN heR tHat nO otHEr haS been abLe tO achieve. yes, a guy may havE Loved heR in a gReat many LyftimEs aNd peRhapS fOr a gReat many mOre, but ‘SEBASTIAN’ has undeRstood heR aNd reaminEd LoyaL to heR iN tHis one. hE is heR true bLue fRiend aNd wOuLd dO anythiNg tO ensuRe heR happiness. it iS hiS Luv fOr heR tHat truLy makeS him human aNd itS heR obLiviousness tO hiS emOtion That makeS heR cLueless tO wHat hiS heaRt haS beeN abLe to teL heR. ( *remembeR cHris raMsey aNd eve LambeRt of pORt cHarLes)

wHat tHey dO have iS sumtHing beautifuL, speciaL iN itS own Light, aNd if eveR tHere waS sumtHing REAL, it waS nOne otHeR tHan ….THEM!*;-)

Hale…resides in a small-but-fertile corner of the musical landscape. This land is populated by men and women who spent most of their youth in the rock scene, but who have recently discovered the simple beauty of a haunting melody and a few honest words. The music emanates a very sad undertone which the band describes as “melodrama”. The lyrical content of their songs are insightful, sad, angry, and earnest; producing music with substance and that explores the full range of human emotions.
My_cHamp…The band is composed of Champ Lui-Pio(lead vocals, guitars), Roll Martinez(guitars, vocals), Sheldon Gellada(bass, vocals) and Omnie Saroca(drums and percussion).All of them are based in the southern area of metro manila(Las Piñas, Alabang and Parañaque).
Musical influences…include a diverse eclectic group of musicians ranging from Dave Matthews, John Mayer, and Kurt Cobain for Champ; Muse, Dave Grohl, Soundgarden, James Iha for Omnie; Sean Malone, P-Nut, Dirk Lance, Jaco Pastorius, John Myung, Bud Gough, Victor Wooten, Buddy Zabala, Aston Barret, and Stefan Lessard for Sheldon; Damien Rice, Switchfoot, Nina Gordon, Vertical Horizon, Shades Apart, Feeder, Travis, Nine Days, Chris Carraba, and The Corrs for Roll.

HaiL tO HaLe…

 d day U sEd gUdnyt… take mE as u aRe, pUsH me Off tHe rOad. The sadnesS, i need tHis tym tO be witH yOu. iM fReezing iN tHe sUn, iM buRning iN tHe rain. tHe siLence; iM scReaming, iM caLLing out yOur naMe. aNsd i dO residE iN yOur Light. pUt oUt tHe fiRe witH mE aNd fiNd. yeaH, uL LoSe tHe side Of yOur ciRcLes. tHat’s wat iL dO if wE say gudbye!…tO be iS oL i gOtta bE, aNd aLL tHat i seE, aNd oL tHat i neEd iS tym. tO mE tHe Lyf U gavE mE, tHe day u sEd gudnyt!…tHe caLmness iN uR facE tHat i seE tHrough tHe nyt, tHe waRmtH Of yOur Light iS pRessiNg untO uS. yOu didnT ask mE wHy. i nEveR wOuLd havE knOwn oBLiviOn iS faLLing dOwn…iF yOu cOuLd oNLy kNow mE Lyk yOur pRayeRS at nyt, tHen eveRytHing between yOu aNd mE wiL be aLryt. sHe’s aLready takEn, sHe’s aLready takEn, sHe’s aLready taken mE…tHe day u sEd gudnyt…

bRoken sOnnEt… aNd nOw i cOncede oN the nyt Of tHis fifteentH sOng Of meLanchoLy, Of meLancHoLy. And nOw i wiL admit iN tHis fOurtH Line tHat iLoveyOu, iLoveyOu…i dOnt caRe wat tHey say, i dOnt caRe wat tHey dO. cOz tOnyt, iL leavE my feaRs beHind, cOz tOnyt, iL bE ryt at yOur sidE. The cLock On tHe tv say 8.39pm. its tHe samE, itS tHe samE. aNd iN tHis next Line, iL say it OL oveR agaiN, tHat iLoveyOu, iLoveyOu…i dOnt caRe wat tHey say, i dOnt caRe wat tHey dO, cOz tOnyt iL Leave my feaRs beHind. cOz tOnyt iL bE ryt at yOur sidE…Lie dOwn ryt nExt tO mE, Lie dOwn ryt next tO mE, aNd i wiL neveR Let gO, wiL neveR Let gO…but i stiL see tHe teaRs fRom uR eyEs…maybE iM juSt nOt tHE onE fOr yOu…

***The "Dawson’s Creek" sweetie-pie (one of my fave actress) is learning the hard way that standing in the blinding light of her A-list amour’s superstardom isn’t all it’s cracked up to be.

Earlier this week, paparazzi caught Holmes out and about in Los Angeles looking less than camera-ready. Not only was she sporting limp locks and nerd chic eyewear, but she had strange marks around her mouth, prompting the London Daily Mail to wonder whether Tom had been "kissing her a little too passionately." Um, ew.

The latest issues of People and Us Weekly chronicle the early days of their love affair, which reportedly began in April after Tom, 42, called Katie, 26, and asked her to take a business meeting at his office in L.A.

The sit-down lasted four hours, and while Holmes didn’t emerge with a part, she did land a dinner date.

Anyhoo, the duo soon met up for your average, run-of-the-mill first date: a mid-air sushi feast aboard Cruise’s private jet. After the mile-high meal, Tom drove Katie to the beach on his motorcycle.

More wooing followed, which led to their big coming-out party last week in Rome, where Cruise referred to Holmes as "amore mio" ("my love") and shouted, "She is bellissima" to an appreciative crowd.

"She is an extraordinary woman," Tom gushed to Extra. "I’m more than enamored."

But what of those conspiracy theory types who speculate that this is some elaborate PR stunt to promote their upcoming projects ("War of the Worlds" and "Batman Begins," respectively)?

Adds Holmes’ rep to the mag, "She doesn’t want to be the biggest movie star in the world. She just wants to be proud of herself and her work."…oHmygOsh!!!!*=P

  paRis hiLtOn…uNdRessed?!

Zing Time in Paris: No, Paris Hilton hasn’t become the world’s wealthiest flight attendant. The perpetual party girl fails to put her best fashion foot forward (encased as it is in an open-toed gold wedgie) in a pleated white micro-mini, a matching (snicker) beret, rhinestone belt, and what looks like a baby blue Members Only jacket. On the plus side, Paris did manage to score one of the season’s hottest accessories: Dior’s white calfskin saddle bag.

Muumuu Boo-Boo: Paris Hilton may fancy herself a sitcom star after the success of "The Simple Life," but that’s no excuse for wearing caftans from Mrs. Roper’s closet on "Three’s Company." Even with that precipitously plunging neckline, this tent-sized floral print catastrophe is almost frumpy on the skin-baring, success-craving starlet, who should have sprung for some heavy-duty, double-sided sticky tape.

my_biRtH…iwas born 2dream &liv wid it, stil luking for myself, confound, &impetuous 2deliver my avowal of self-divulgement &probing mode 2let go of my caginess, retinence, &inhibitions. Sumtyms, I tend nt 2move so fast dat I try 2change d mores faster dan pips can accept it bt dat doesn’t mean dat I do nothing, it only means dat I do d things dat nid 2b done according 2my priority. my_dEcisivEnesS…2often d decisions I made R orignted &given form in bodies made up wholly of pips, or so completely dominated by dem dat watever of special value I huv 2offer is shunted asyd w/o expression.

my_Lyf…I gain strength, &courage, &confidence by each experience in w/c I rily stop 2luk fearful &lost ind face. I must do those w/c I think I cannot. I cud not, at any age, b content 2take my place by d fireside &simply luk on. Lyf was meant 2b lived. Curiousity must b kept alyv. I must never, 4 watever rison, turn my back on lyf.

my_HapinEsS…Wid an adequate tym, sumhow, I wil wilingly accept a reduction in d things w/c R not really essentials 2happiness bt w/c actualy consume a gud deal of luv dat is spread by many, in order dat nt only I bt mor pips may huv those things w/c R essential 2happy living, wid dat I may luk, I beliv, 4d dawn of a new day.

my_LoVe…Unconsciously, my character shape myself 2mit d rqts w/c my dreams put upon my lyf As I grow older I realize dat d only pleasure I huv in anything is 2share it wid sum1 else. dat is tru of memories, &it is tru of all I do after I reach a certain age. d real joy in things, or in d doing of things, jz 4d sake of doing or possessng, is gone; but 2me d joy in sharing sumthing dat u lyk with sum1 else is doubly enhanced. Jz lyk if, as I can’t help suspecting, d dead also feel dpains of separation &being alone, den 4 both lovers w/o exception, bereavement is a universal &integral part of our experience of luv. Luv is sumtyms denied, sumtyms lost, sumtyms unrecognized, but in d end, always found wid no regrets, 4ever valued &kept treasured.